What’s your favorite Christmas memory?
Do you know the warning signs of being mentally and emotionally exhausted?
Most of us are aware of the necessity to stop and heal when the body has been stressed and injured in some way.
But how many of us know the importance of, or take time out to heal the mind from overwhelming emotional stresses… How many of us proactively take pause daily mindfully counter or regroup from the ordinary everyday stresses that if left unchecked can turn into overwhelm?
And we know that what takes hold in the mind eventually affects the physical body.
That said, I came across this article and thought I’d share.
Eight Signs You Are Mentally And Emotionally Exhausted:
- You Lack Motivation.
- You Are Easily Upset.
- You Cry At The Drop Of A Dime.
- You Are Having Frequent Anxiety Attacks.
- You Are Easily Irritated.
- You Can’t Sleep.
- You Frequently Feel Nauseated Or Dizzy.
- You Start To Go Numb.
Remember to make space in your day for self love and wellness.
Until next time Be Well.
My Thoughts Are…
When a well adjusted rational person is ignorant about certain things, there is a good chance that when their ignorance is brought to light or even better… their experience has enlightened them, they will learn… if they are open to the possibility.
Stupidity by contrast is the inability to be open to or failing to learn when your ignorance on a subject is brought to your attention. Or worse… you fail to heed the lessons or choose not to see the reality of the situation.
And no… I am not talking about reading, writing or arithmetic.
The past couple years we seem to have been inundated by a different kind of stupidity… A cruel kind of stupidity. And in some cases, this type of cruel stupidity is accompanied by fake ignorance.
This particular kind of stupidity and ignorance is used to hide a lack of compassion and empathy for others. A lack of compassion and empathy cloaked as ignorance in order to promote the agenda of The Stupid and The Cruel. Sometimes people feign ignorance about another person’s cruel stupidity to hold onto a way of life they fear is slipping away from them.
Are you picking up what I’m laying down? Haha
I know… That’s a lot of ignorance and stupidity to wrap your brain around. I know I for one have struggled to understand the times we are living in… especially these past two years. But stick with me… That is, only if you’re open to the possibility. ;- )
But if you’re feeling me… Please Vote!
And if you are among the faux ignorant or even the cruelly stupid, all I have to say to you is… Get Out And Mingle Dammit…! Meet some people other than the stupid ignorant people you’re used to dealing with!!
Now let me say this, ignorance and stupidity are not relegated to your social status, bank account, race, religion or your gender. We are all subject to being ignorant of certain things from time to time… and sometimes we may even be accused of being stupid. No one knows everything… Right.
But my hope is that inside of us all there is a capacity for compassion, empathy and the willingness to try and understand that we all are connected… that we are all in this together. But again, only if we are open to the possibility.
Until next time… Be Well ❤
When I think about this time last year I don’t know where to focus my thoughts… They are like one of Picasso’s famous paintings… all disjointed and irregular.
If you’ve read my “ABOUT” page of this blog, you know that I live on an island… Beautiful St. Thomas, U.S. Virgin Islands. This past month of August makes it twenty three years we’ve lived here.
The Virgin Islands are a beautiful group of islands in the eastern Caribbean, St. Croix, St. Thomas, St. John and Water Island all make up the U.S. Virgins. We are right next door to the British Virgin Islands and a short twenty minute or so plane ride to Puerto Rico.
The beautiful photo of the double rainbow above was taken four days before the beginning of the most terrifying, unpredictable, emotionally draining and heartbreaking times in my life.
You see, this time last year preparations were underway for the coming of a major storm. The storm was days off but I had begun the process of taking things off the balcony when I looked up and noticed the overwhelmingly gorgeous day. It was one of those days that makes you drop whatever it is you’re doing and feel compelled to silently give thanks for witnessing it’s splendor. The bands of rain moving over the water and the double rainbow that was forming were awe inspiring. From past experience I knew we may not have another day like this for a while so I ran inside and grabbed my phone to capture on photo this most breathtakingly beautiful day.
After the Storm…
And as expected, a day later a picture taken at this very same spot off the balcony of our condo would be drastically different.
The next day on September 6, 2018 we were hit dead on first by hurricane Irma and then two weeks later hurricane Maria struck. The most amazing thing about these events other than them taking almost the exact same route and hitting two weeks apart is that they were both unpresidented category five hurricanes. And I don’t care what you’ve heard after the fact… These were both monster storms that devastated not only the U. S. Virgin Islands but also flattened Puerto Rico, the British Virgin Islands and also almost every island in the lesser antilles.
That was last September. After living through the devastation of these two history making storms and trying to salvage what was left of our lives I was hit with a third hurricane that came in the form of a phone call from my daughter in New York telling me that my sister Barbara in Cincinnati had died.
Barbara was my oldest sister.
My beautiful, intelligent, funny, trailblazing sister Barbara had been the family matriarch since our mother passed twenty two years before… a short five months after we moved here in August of 1995… That move, amazingly enough was only two weeks before our first initiation to hurricanes… when category three hurricane Marilyn hit the island and all but leveled it.
As I write this, re-living the pain of those times last year is almost too much to bear and I am still unable to articulate the immense feelings that are still so sharp at times they cut through the surface and bleed anew like it were only yesterday.
What I share here are but a few of the tramas we endured in the aftermath of the events of last year but they are by far the greatest. And so I will leave it right here.
That double rainbow in the photo I took days before the storm, as beautiful and awesome and powerful as it was, was still not strong enough to block Hurricane Irma or just two short weeks after that second monster storm (Maria) made its brutal landfall. It definitely was not strong enough to block the pain of losing my sister.
But then, we never know what The Universe has in store for us at any given moment. There are days that go by when I am as if none of this ever happened and I am thankful for them. But then the reality sweeps in just as those first bands of rain swept across the blue waters of the Caribbean Sea that day last year when I captured my life before last September… and I know I am forever changed.
But I am still here, shaken, battered and still afraid at times… But I am still here. One love~ ❤💕💞